The greatest obstacle I have ever had was the loss of my first child. The fact I had her when I was only sixteen was an obstacle in it self but her death shook the foundation of my very being. I was military brat and came for a rather hard and rocky childhood. My father in the Air force led us to country all around the world. Though my father and mother's marriage was only held together by my brother, sister and I, this made for a very unhappy home to grow up in. When we moved to Japan though I was fourteen as most fourteen year olds I made my mistakes and often they were huge mistakes as…