10. You pick the wrong person because he/she is involved in a triangle. To be "triangulated" means a person is emotionally dependent on someone or something else while trying to develop another relationship. A person who hasn't separated from his or her parents is a classic example of triangulation. People can also be triangulated with things as well, such as work, drugs, Internet, hobbies, sports or money. Be careful that you and your partner are free of triangles. The person caught in a triangle cannot be fully emotionally available to you. You'll not be their number one priority. And that's not basis for a marriage.
Many people are struggling because they have not used what God has given them. God gives you an acorn, you invest it and it will become a tree!
Stop praying for trees while acorns are lying all over the ground. God answered your prayer for the tree when he sent you the acorn.
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