Sometimes, from the outside looking in, all you can say is that the situation is complex, there's no nice, easy, safe way out, all you can do is play the cards you have and hope the dealer turns up something nice on the river. Like I said, it's invigorating to be in the throws of emotion, it's life affirming, it is the risk we take by not being hermits hiding in the shadows woeful over our forlornness. You can only love by cracking open your rib cage and showing someone your beating heart, of course you run the risk of bacterial infection while they deliberate. …
